Male, early 50's. Happily, happily married to my soul mate. A smasher of walls that people of "Christian" faith (my tribe) have erected: cold stones of fear, shame, self righteousness, judgement and offense. We are well known for picking up these stones and hurling them at those we perceive to threaten us. This blog is a way to process my own thoughts on the Creator's most beautiful and glorious gift: woman and sexuality. Perhaps a few of my beloved tribe can find greater freedom outside the walls. NSFW.